Dogs are wonderful companions! And just like people, they need to feel safe and respected. Understanding how to approach and interact with a dog helps build trust and prevents dangerous situations and bites. There are many things you can do, and avoid doing, that will help a dog to feel happy and safe! Here are some important do’s and don’ts to keep in mind when spending time with a dog.
Do:
When meeting a dog, always let it sniff your hand first—but do so gently and respectfully. Instead of leaning over the dog and reaching toward its face, or towering over it and patting the top of its head, crouch down to its level and hold out your hand calmly. Let the dog come to you.
When you pet the dog, pet it on the side of its face, under the chin on the neck, or along the side of its body and its back, always going in the direction of the fur- don’t pet the dog “against the grain”.
Speak to the dog in a calm, soft voice.
Avoid staring and making prolonged intentional direct eye contact, as that can feel threatening to a dog. Turning your side or back to the dog shows that you’re not a threat. Let the dog come to you when it’s ready. Once the dog is comfortable, you can gently pet its side, neck, or back.
Don’t:
Never invade a dog’s personal space. Don’t put your face near a dog’s face or grab its head and try to kiss it—this can make the dog feel scared or defensive, as you are invading its personal space. Avoid hugging or smothering a dog. Do not pull on its ears or tail. Dogs also don’t like to be climbed on or sat on.
Never stare directly at a dog, as they see this as a challenge.
Avoid yelling, squealing, or making sudden loud noises around the dog. Even if you are really excited to see a dog, and you make a squeal of delight, it makes them nervous, puts them on edge and makes them feel uneasy about you. Do not yell at a dog, as that will not make them feel safe.
It’s also important not to approach a dog when it’s eating or sleeping, and never try to take away its toy, bone, or food dish. If a dog walks or runs away, don’t follow or chase it—give the dog space and time to feel safe again.
By remembering these simple do’s and don’ts, we can make sure our interactions with dogs are safe, kind, and positive for everyone involved.
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